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[sebastian]

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Thats why I like guys they won't tell on you to their friends

Wow, Jey, what group of guys have you been playing with? The gay men I know are constantly chatting with each other about who they slept with. In the leather community, references are actually sort of important--they tell you who's safe to play with and who's an asshole. And then there's the matter of guys who are poz but don't admit it. Straight men might be a little better, but I doubt it. Frat boys constantly brag about their conquests.

 

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[Darktruth]

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I know you said she doesn't like hair pulling. Perhaps previously they pulled too hard or she is tender headed, so a litte effort really hurts. Maybe try lightly tugging and ease her into enjoying the pain.

It’s not just the hair pulling love, it’s everything else she doesn’t like. We’ve only just started going out so it’s not a huge problem (its not as if we’re madly in love or anything) but its just annoying/frustrating. I don’t even know why I’m finding this so frustrating to be honest, I just am.

 

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[Darktruth]

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Frat boys constantly brag about their conquests.

Sadly you're very right. It's something that annoys me as well because it’s not as if they’re even remotely nice about it. They’re also very happy to go about calling all their “conquests” whores and other names like that (not in the fun way either). As I’ve told them many times “if she’s a whore then what are you for sleeping with her? If you have that low of an opinion of her then you can’t think that highly of yourself either”.


Ceilidh – I forgot to put this on my other post. lol. She seems to value her privacy.

 

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[Ceilidh]

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It’s not just the hair pulling love, it’s everything else she doesn’t like. We’ve only just started going out so it’s not a huge problem (its not as if we’re madly in love or anything) but its just annoying/frustrating. I don’t even know why I’m finding this so frustrating to be honest, I just am.

I understand that. It is like with my book. One would imagine it would be simple to write about ones life. But I found myself getting frustrated at the simplest things. Mostly because I just couldn't get my thoughts and feeling into the propper words. But once I did it; it seemed so simple. Like "why didn't I do this to begin with?"



Alright I must go for the rest of the day. The barn is a wreck and the movers are going to bring our stuff tomorrow (given we don't have bad weather again)...so lots to do and it is really hot here.

 

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[Ceilidh]

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For some reason my editing didn't want to work so new post then I'm gone.

DT,
Since she values her privacy she might not go gossiping to her friends. Is she shy too? If so I would try to slowly introduce her to BDSM. Here is a thought - what about pleasureable sensations? Find something she likes and use it. Make her want 'more.'

 

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[sillylittlepet]

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Have you asked her what she likes?

Maybe she's 100% vanilla. Think about it DT, nothing but loving whispering, sex in the dark, slow thrusts, gentle movements, sex only once a week and only if she's in the mood
XD

If she's a private girl then her friends might not hear a thing (aka the subs out there wont hear a thing)

Ceilidh I didnt know you were living on a ranch!!

 

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[Ceilidh]

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Ceilidh I didnt know you were living on a ranch!!

I wouldn't call it a ranch. I just call it out in BFE, mostly because we are a 15 min drive down the interstate from the nearest towns.

The property I now live on is 80 wooded acres. There is 2 ponds stocked with fish, 4 horses, and about 6 cattle and 6 alpacas. There is also a ton of dogs and cats runing around -- we just picked up a momma cat and 3 kittens, they are so CUTE!

Out here my in-laws are finishing up a 2 bedroom house with a lot of NICE extras... But they also have built "the barn," which is what I am living in. The barn has stables, a horse tack room, a hay loft, and feed room. It also has a 3 bedroom, 1 bath, and 2 living spaces built into it...it was like they built the house then added the barn to the sides with a riding area behind the house...

But maybe one could call this place a ranch, but in my mind it isn't. To me a ranch is much larger, more open spaces, and a lot more livestock...

 

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[sillylittlepet]

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that is one sweet barn

 

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[master jey]

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Wow, Jey, what group of guys have you been playing with?

I didn't mean playmates
I've meant that I feel much better around guys
Around here men don't really like bragging bout there deeds we believe that if a guy can do something he doesn't brag
Bragging ones are virgin kids who are trying to look cool

 

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[Darktruth]

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Have you asked her what she likes?

Oddly enough its pretty much what you said below:

Maybe she's 100% vanilla. Think about it DT, nothing but loving whispering, sex in the dark, slow thrusts, gentle movements, sex only once a week and only if she's in the mood

She said “romantic†to be precise but I’m guessing she doesn’t mean my idea of “romanticâ€. It’s difficult to get a straight answer out of her at times, I’ll try to talk to her about it again tomorrow.

 

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