What's your safe word?

A safe toy is an object held by the sub; dropping it signals a need to stop play. It's most commonly used when the sub is gagged and cannot speak easily, but it can also be useful with a sub who tends to get so lost in subspace that s/he forgets to safe word. A sub that far out of it will often drop the toy
 
"buzz lightyear". It's silly; the first object I saw in his room was a Woody doll but "Woody" could be misleading.
 
The most common safeword I've heard from models and subs is "red". I had one girl who during a shoot where she was gagged used the first bars of Beethovens fifth. I use "lobster" myself.
 
"gumdrops". she asked me to come up with one and that's all i could come up with. i was slightly...preoccupied at the time, hahah. so, that's the story of our stupid safeword. xD
 
When speaking is possible "stop" and "easy" work well enough to cease activity or ease down the action, respectively. Otherwise safety measures vary from scenario to scenario, testing whatever seems to work in a given situation.
 
Oklahoma, all the way. I love Jackass, which is why that's our safe word, though I've never used it ;)
 
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