What's your safe word?

Smallest · Jul 28, 2012

Sweetnothings, the darker purple is really hard to read, for future reference. It might just be my monitor though

Roland · Jul 28, 2012

We use:

Steam - I'm almost at my limit so be cautious
Pressure - It's too intense now...slow down / ease off
Feather - STOP!

MrWolfgang · Jul 30, 2012

Nice Roland. She uses Black for stop and Vanilla for slowdown. Shes only had to use them once so...Ill take that as not bad. Shes a trooper.

Oh and by the way....thank you to whoever bumped this thread so I didnt have to look at the last threads title ("Is shit eating harmfull...") every time I got on here. Lol. Thank ya.

BA19 · Nov 22, 2012

I think that a safe word if I was subbing would defeat the purpose. I'd probably just blurt it out to see how far they'd go, and would be honestly disappointed if they dropped the whole thing.

Smallest · Nov 22, 2012

But that's not what a safe word is for. Sure you could do that, but the point is that if something goes absolutely wrong or bad, you have a stop that they can absolutely understand. It's not a matter of not submitting or pushing the dom, it's an emergency stop.

BA19 · Nov 22, 2012

Smallest said:
But that's not what a safe word is for. Sure you could do that, but the point is that if something goes absolutely wrong or bad, you have a stop that they can absolutely understand. It's not a matter of not submitting or pushing the dom, it's an emergency stop.

I know what the point is. I'm just saying that I wouldn't use one, 'cuz it'd be too tempting.

RopeRanger · Nov 28, 2012

sebastian said:
A safe toy is an object held by the sub; dropping it signals a need to stop play. It's most commonly used when the sub is gagged and cannot speak easily, but it can also be useful with a sub who tends to get so lost in subspace that s/he forgets to safe word. A sub that far out of it will often drop the toy

I use a large acorn style bell like you'd use as a Christmas decoration. Works on carpet and hardwood.

IamKira · Dec 12, 2012

apple

straitjacket · Jan 21, 2013

subspace said:
Just out of pure unadulterated curiosity I was wonder what other's safe words are, or if you have another way to tell your partner to stop (drop toy like OLP).
I have only used the color system and that was about 100 years ago.

Our safe word is "paloauto" = fire truck and that means all stop now.

straitjacket · Jan 21, 2013

BA19 said:
I know what the point is. I'm just saying that I wouldn't use one, 'cuz it'd be too tempting.

that is little offtopic.

Color red-yellow-green means

red - enough
yellow = you get to decide
green = much more.

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