Question for straight male doms/masters

[ShySJChub]

I'm completely new to this site, so I apologize if something similar has already been posted here, but here goes:

Are there any straight men out there that like the idea of having a gay sub in their control? I love the idea of a man who is straight and thus doesn't think of me as a sexual partner keeping me as a slave or as a pet.

Am I just chasing an impossibility?

 

[Ruelee]

I wouldn't say it's an impossibility - anything is possible in some way or another, and I can see this happening.
But I wouldn't chase it to the point of excluding other opportunities when they come knocking though. Keep yourself open for other ideas and such as they come.

 

[master jey]

It's possible

 

[L8NightQ]

Agreed. Possible, but how probable.... who knows.

If you're talking about someone who is completely straight, as opposed to bi-sexual, or pan-sexual, the possibility of finding someone like that diminishes rather quickly.

We're still talking about slave/pet from a BDSM perspective, which means there is some sexual connotation... So the mere thought that a straight Dom/Master would take you on as a pet/slave, means he would have to question his own sexuality.

But that then leads to a much more complicated discussion of "what is your own sexuality".

Sebastian mentioned the Kinsey sex research, and the corresponding Kinsey Scale.

Here's a summary statement from Kinsey;
“Males do not represent two discrete populations, heterosexual and homosexual. The world is not to be divided into sheep and goats…The living world is a continuum in each and every one of its aspects."

Good luck, and welcome to the forum shy.

 

[sebastian]

You might find a straight master who was willing to accept domestic service from you, and might reward that service with discipline, but most straight masters are probably more interested in receiving service from a female sub. And you might be able to find a straight master who will do a one-off scene with you.

What is this fantasy based in? Is it about the humiliation of serving someone who's not attracted to you at all?

 

[stvstvns]

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[L8NightQ]

Huh?

Let me get this right.... Your straight, but pan-sexual?

 

[stvstvns]

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[sebastian]

Pansexual in the sense that I'm blind to gender or gender related issues when it comes to Service and similar issues. Is that "right" enough for you?

I don't think he was trying to be rude, Stvstvns, or dictate what's 'right'. I think he was confused by the way you used 'pansexual'. I'm not sure there is such a thing as pansexual about non-sexual activity', but I get what you're referring to.

 

[stvstvns]

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