is it possible to stay stiill and quiet when being spanked hard?

[submissivegf07]

hi, everyone i am new here, actually i have been reading other people's posts but i never had a change of posting anything, until today....

my Dom has set up a new task for me: stay still and quiet when being spanked.

i am a crier and i tend to move or beg him to stop when he spanks me really hard, (he only enjoys hard spanking), so do i, i am sort of a masochist, i enjoy pain, but i just can't keep still when i am getting spanked, and i cry whenever it is too painful.

is it even possible to hold these natural reflections?? hmm, i know with practice and training, and over time it is possible to achieve it, but are there some techniques that may help?

thanks!

 

[Smallest]

I do my best to stay still, but I tend to flinch. As it goes on, I either stop flinching or flinch when he raises his hand, but not when impact happens.

So, I'd say it's possible, without even too much training, if you put in effort.

 

[sebastian]

Your dom may intentionally be giving you a task he doesn't think you can succeed at because it gives him an excuse to punish you for failing.

 

[submissivegf07]

sebastian, that is not the case here unfortunately, he will not give me any physical punishment if i fail to do that, he said he will be happier if i am able to do that some day in the future, and he gets upset whenever i move/ make noise/ cry.

 

[submissivegf07]

smallest, thank you for giving me some hope >.< i will definitely put in efforts, I saw a video on xhamster, this Japanese girl stayed at one position during a whole caning session, it was a pretty severe one i'd say, welll, the skin on her ass broke at the end i think, neither did she make a sound. i finished watching the video feeling wow... that lady, she is something!! ps: she didn't clench ....

 

[master jey]

bite your finger before every impact )

 

[Dungeonspankr]

In my opinion try as hard as you can to sustain the pain by keeping your mind busy. Think about why you are being spanked or maybe "incentives" attached if applicable. The key is to keep calm, understand, and WELL whimper.

 

[submissivegf07]

thanks, dungeonspankr, i will try my best this sunday. i have to do my best to please him : )

 

[P.S.Eudonym]

bite your finger before every impact

I would be careful with that suggestion. The human jaw is capable of impressive pressure, especially when in pain. Biting on a mouthguard, a sterile piece of leather or something similar is a good idea. Your finger is not.

 

[submissivegf07]

lol, thank you guys, i am getting ready for my spanking in 8 hours!! and i will keep you all posted!