How old were you at that time?

[kelsey anne]

Ever since I started masturbating, the only way I could cum is by thinking of females being spanked or taken roughly and dominated. So, I guess ever since then?

When it really developed was probably around age 14. Yet, I never let any high school guys see that side of me.

 

[Stargazer]

It's wierd... I can remember being very very young when I found it exciting to be tied up. I was probably as young as seven or eight when I would use clothes to tie my feet together at night time. Of course, being young and inexperienced, it wasn't particularly secure and I used to wake up in the morning with loads of knotted jumpers in my bed.

As a young teenager I discovered sexual arousal and managed to connect basic self bondage with masturbation, at fourteen I bought a set of cheapo metal handcuffs and cut the safety latch out of them and at eighteen, using some padlocks and a few lengths of chain lost my virginity to the woman who's now my wife.

The fact I started having a fascination with restraint when I was so young makes me wonder whether I'm a nut-case or just destined to be submissive despite current circumstances are trying to prevent it.

 

[Obsidian]

I was probably about 7-8 when I first started having bdsm fantasies, (Rape, bondage and slavery) however I when I hit puberty and eventually having sexual relationships they were always vanilla until I turned 18 and met my first (and only) Dom.

 

[ReallyGreen]

While I can't recall any specific early memories there was already a leather/BDSM theme in my head when I first started masturbating around 11-12. I was also incorporating some BDSM elements into my relationship with my first girlfriend at 15 (light bondage, blindfolds, menstrual worship, etc), but that was before the internet so we really weren't able to do most kinky things because we were just plain ignorant of them (kids today have no idea how much like sucked back yonder).

 

[nix]

ever since I was little I used to like being sat on and (pointlessly) ordered around by people, and when I was in my early teens I had a few friends who enjoyed doing all kinds of (very tame in retrospect) dominating things to me in private. It was around then that I realised what it was that I was doing and enjoying and I've never looked back.
I'm a firm believer in women being the superior sex to us men, but I still count myself as a switch because submissive women still get me hard - but in the way that people like watching violent films. they disagree with the violence, but still find the film exciting - if you get what I mean.

 

[west01]

I was about 17 when i discovered i like bdsm, sure I dind't know the name bdsm. I started to search the internet, pictures and movies. And then I started some self bondage and so i'm a sub today.

 

[subton]

Teenager

I was 14 when I first realised I liked being tied up, I used to use any excuse I could think of to get the local girls to tie me up, but I was in my early 20s before I realised that there were other people who shared the same ideas

 

[InnocentLooks]

I find this poll really interesting. I liked being tied up and dominating men as long as I can remember. I started having rape/torture/slavery fantasies before I even really knew how sex worked... like 10, maybe?

 

[yasha32]

i was raised in a, for lack of a better term, crappy household where spanking (more like kicking our ass) was normal. The whole idea of bdsm scared me up until juinor year of high school when my current fiance called me master and bought herself a collar and leash. this was a whole new way to look at everything, and since then we've been hooked.

 

[Ted Michael Morgan]

I recall my first encounter with a bonadage magazine and I was astonished that it turned me on as much as it did. I had always seen images of women tied up but those were old police magazines and did nothing for me. The bondage magazine featured a pretty girl in white leather. I was just stunned that it turn me on.