where to purchase BDSM items?

[ifly]

Whats up everyone? New to the board here but not to BDSM as I have been into BDSM in one form or another since I was about 17. My wife and I are very compatable on our levels of bondage which we would consider to be a lower level of hardcore.

What I'm curious is where we can find things like shackles and other legit restrains? The only things we have been finding are your "beginner" kits and "softcore" items. I'm looking for things like flat iron spreader bars with ankle and wrist cuffs or a "spreader bar" that is wrist and neck restraints.

We are also into medium abuse and realistic rape so I would also be interested in hearing from some of the board members on ways to make a rape as realistic as possible for you and your partners.

Thanks all

ifly

 

[Smallest]

Try all your local sex stores, and ask the people working there- at mine there is also stuff that is less popular to sell put away in the back.

You can also find good quality stuff at Stockroom, online stores for sex shops, and apparently ebay.

 

[ifly]

thanks smallest, I hadn't considered ebay

 

[sebastian]

Mr S Leather makes very good leather and BDSM gear.
http://www.mr-s-leather.com