What's your safe word?

[WildsweetSwitch]

Well, since oftentimes we enjoy having me playing the victim ( "No! Don't! Ohmygod noooo! Stop!!*struggling*" ), a safe word is totally necessary for us.

Ours is "Hamburgers!"
And if I'm gagged or choking, I pinch him on the ribs or thighs. I'm not supposed to hurt him generally, because he doesn't enjoy pain, but a quick pinch when I can't talk will get his attention.

Although, I so enjoy pain and humiliation from him that I have Never used a safe word/safe gesture... which could be a little dangerous. But all the more fun!

 

[Mrflibble]

the Safword i use with my girlfriend is 'boomerang'. Not really sure why.

 

[FTMSovereign]

Almoner

 

[SubmissivePrincess]

I've used banana in the past... not sure why lol

 

[Sally]

my safe word is "wolf". comes from the story "the boy who cried wolf." to remind myself that i don't deserve to end the game. i'm saying to myself "you'r lying"

i have used it once, my x was biting me, and it was the end of the relationship, messy thing. i was mad at him and he was not a good biter.

and i have tapped out a guy once, very strong (nomnom) and big guy, who just found out he liked BDSM. he was very drunk and i had egged him on. he gets strong when he is drunk. lucky for me he likes UFC.

 

[Luna]

With the little one my safe word is Mirror.
With my Kinky British boyfriend I use Puppet.
And although I don't think it counts as a safe word, as a courtesy to me, he will say circus before exploding in my mouth .... I got caught off guard once and, well, wasn't the most romantic moment.

 

[Smallest]

In theory, we use the stoplight system.

 

[pippa89]

mine is 'turnip' as it was the most random word I could think of

 

[Malagata]

Guinness. Though...I haven't had to use it either. And the funny part is that I am gluten intolerant...so Guinness is hazardous to my health.

My husband is very attentive to subtle cues in my face and body language, if he is being too rough he often knows it before I do. Lol

 

[stevenandjen]

Snowman