What is your fetish?

[Phantasm]

Pyroaquatic, you've no idea the respect I have for you. We all have our traumas, and bad events in life... and they shape who we are as people. You haven't let yours destroy you.



Phanta completely approves.

 

[brittany6142006]

Not to interrupt any current discussions taking place, but I don't think what my desire is could be considered a fetish. I like the idea of artificial rape, or forced sex that I'm aware of.

Something about being completely forced into submission for sex completely turns me on.
;D

 

[Sparrow69]

and that is actually a very popular fetish.

 

[Groovy]

My fetishes-

Restraints
Blindfolds
urethral play
Low Estim
Spanking and paddling
Hair pulling

I guess I am a lightweight and that's partly why I am here, to explore further. I know I don't like caning, whipping, hard electro, heavy clamps or anal sex with anything too big. Although I like the idea of having to select one of my least favorites if I am bad and did something I shouldn't have. But I also believe in safe words and safe practices!

Thus far I have yet to meet someone since my last relationship ended 6 months ago. I wish I could have that relationship aspect with someone I was in love with. Not some weirdo off the internet that might take it a step too far. Hence I am here to share just in the forum.

What I like about BDSM.....The trust I build when I give someone all control, the discipline that motivates me to make the right choices and well of course the sexual aspect! I also like the idea of having someone I am in love with and they get to see sides of me no one else does. It makes me feel intimate on a whole new level.

 

[Sparrow69]

Then let me welcome you to the party Groovy. I'm sure you'll fit in just fine, and you'll more then likely find exactly the conversations and mental stimulus you're looking for. Lots of people here share your interests and have branched into others.

 

[pyroaquatic]

What is this low estim? is that like self esteem?

 

[Groovy]

No Estim is "electrosexual". Like a tens unit but on your breasts or genitals either via pads or insertibles. It hurts when I did it once or twice and go on a really low setting but when I cum it's intense enough to almost vomit, lol. It causes the muscles to contract on a very strong intense level. I like the feeling on my breast and inside me. However, I HATE when it touches anything outside as the nerves are hypersensitive.

 

[subspace]

Okay Groovy, you've got me thinking. I did this just once (on arm) but it went on for so long and was so painful that I had completely given up on it. An insertable on low setting may be fun, anyone else try this?

 

[Sparrow69]

I've used estim, but i dont make it a regular habit, so therefore i don't classify it as one of my fetishes.

 

[pyroaquatic]

I love electromagnetism. It is like a fetish in of itself. OOOOH.
A whole other world to explore.