What is to be done with my sub

[ImperialConditioning]

a lot of harm can come from downtime...

 

[Kor]

My husband enjoys me begging and saying please to him quite often. But he also will say thank you if I've done a good job of pleasing him.

When the stick is enjoyable, it's easy to forget the carrot.

It is difficult to maintain a successful long-term relationship without some of both.

 

[sebastian]

Kor's right. A BDSM relationship shouldn't be all discipline and push factors. It should also includes compliments, rewards, and other pull factors.

 

[Smallest]

The whole Daddy/girl argument was moved to DLG Discussion.

Related from my old post: "And Kor, I like your wording."