What defines being bi?

[Tumbl3]

Then go into that relationship with that on the table. There are rational people out there who are willing to try, and if it doesn't work out, it doesn't work out.

 

[Ruelee]

Honesty being the best policy again. I guess I should have thought of that.
Thanks everyone. I feel at least more certain of where I stand now.

 

[kittengrey]

I have been with both genders myself (I was lucky enough to have a point in life where I was dating both of them at the same time with mutual agreement on both sides for the open relationship) And although I'm married to my male Master, I have moments where I'd love to have a woman in my bed again. But to me, emotional attraction is blind, and I am pansexual. I don't look at the gender either way, but the personality and person that's there, no matter what they have in their pants.
But everyone has a point in their life where they aren't sure which way they're looking. It really about trial and error, and doing what you feel is right.

 

[princedorian]

Hi. I am bisexual male, but but the bdsm lifestyle works for me only with men. I could never serve a woman, I even have been dominant with them couple of times, and I enjoyed it. On the other hand, I couldnt have "normal" sexual relations with men, I am only interested in being their slave. This probably makes me a twisted and troubled individual, but as long as it works for me, what the hell.

 

[Nuka]

Being a bisexual myself, I like to think that love should be genderless.

N/ Isn't that Pansexuality?

(I'm not saying that you are I was just throwing in a bit of a wildcard here)

So then, where does Bisexual end and it becomes Pansexual?
Who here recognises/accepts/knows the differences between the two?

Personally, I was bi-curious once but found myself in heterosexuality more. I'm very comfortable with women, and do act... feminine around certain people (and do the whole throw an accent, pretend to try on funny hats in shops etc) and probably stereotype too much, but then having a Pan/Bi partner and also a hell of a lot of Bi/Les/Gay friends what I do and how I act is within my comfort zone enough to say I'm straight. It depends on who is defining the borders, and whether the person who is trying to define it or is saying they are something is ready to accept it.

Wow what a ramble.


a/ i personally am bi/pan, about 4, but i am in a long term relationship with my Master who is male and i wouldn't swap him for anyone. i guess for me, women are more sexually attractive, and they can be better in relationships, as they know more about how women work, but then again men are protectors and make me feel safe, so they are good in relationships in a different way. i have been bi for four years and recently came out as pan after my Master mentioned the idea to me, which i had never considered before. To be honest i hadn't really heard of it, but after a while of consideration, i thought it to be more fitting for me, as i don't think i should be with someone based on their gender, although i am still more sexually attracted to females. But that is just me. Nya.

 

[Infinia]

Personally i think its all words to label people and seperate everyone into little boxes.

As I see it you fall in love with someone or feel attraction and thats it doesn't matter who the person is your body reacts. Now if your interested in the labels you look at who it is your body reacts to. I'm from a very christian familie and anything but straight is taboo, so i tried guys. After trying sex the first time and throwing up on him i kinda figuered that wasnt a good idea. I'm solely attracted to women emotionally and physically so i'm a lesbian by that reasoning.

oh and Nuk men are not the protectors that depends entirly on personallity my mistress is very sweet and feminin, but i feel completly and utterly safe with her. Being in her arms is comforting and I know if anyone would try anything with me she'd hurt them very badly.

People are people regardless of sex you have women who are very strong and do sports and all the things guys are asociated with but they aren't dikes they are fully women. The same goes for men some cook, clean even knit and are damn good at it. Hell the guy who plays wolverine in x-men movies is very manly and married and he's into theater and dances like the steriotipical gay guy.
people aren't ankered to their sex anymore like they used to you can be anyone you are in modern society.

Just ask what you feel and you'll figuere it out. Who do you feel an attraction towards

 

[Nuka]

Sorry, the bottom part with the a/ next to it was my partner's piece who is a bisexual woman.

And I totally agree, it is all just words and labels, but unfortunately everything has to be categorised now. Personally I don't give a damn what orientation someone is, if I do/don't like them it's usually something they do, say or way they act. It's personality over sexual preferance.

 

[Infinia]

pretty much you love a person not a word and you can hope that person loves you back

 

[sillylittlepet]

hahaha hugh jackman is actually a fantastic dancer

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Terhj8mjPwY

if you havent seen how he opened the oscars, you're committing a crime

 

[Tumbl3]

hahaha hugh jackman is actually a fantastic dancer

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Terhj8mjPwY

if you havent seen how he opened the oscars, you're committing a crime

Thank you for that. I can now die happy and amused.