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[ReallyGreen]

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I SOOOO badly want this but I've wanted the piercings for a long long time.

That looks like a knock-off 'Hitachi magic wand' vibrator for twice the price (You're paying almost $40 for the stickers on it).

If I get the genital piercing, I'd do either a horizontal or vertical ring with a bead on it. Hopefully purple bead.

A CBR (captive bead ring) is cheap and easy to find online. Once you get the initial piercing you can use any jewelry with the same diameter (most piercings start at 14 gauge). Painfulpleasures (dot com) can set you up with a titanium CBR where the ring and the bead are solid purple for less than $20

I think I'd get rings in my nipples if I went with them . . . I could use some opinions *bats her eyelashes*

There are basically two piercings that 99.99% of all people have.
1. Horizontal ring through the erect nipple tissue.
2. Horizontal bar through the areola (but not the erectable nipple itself)

Vertical piercings are very uncommon.

 

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[Obedient Little Puppy]

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Good luck with the piercings, whatever decision you make

Gah, stupid me...it's been snowing here, there is a huge hole in my living room wall...and I have put all of my warm sweaters and hoodies in the washing machine. I am absolutely freezing

 

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[InnocentFacade]

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*lends OLP some body heat*

I actually hadn't even thought of getting vertical nipple piercings, I just assumed I'd get horizontal.

I know it's super over-priced, but I love the small size of it. I won't be getting that, it's too expensive, I just like it a lot!

 

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[Obedient Little Puppy]

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*lends OLP some body heat*

Aww, thank you

Just put the clothes in the tumble drier, so will put something on the second it's finished...lovely toasty warm clothes

Hmm, I seem to have a tiny lump of some kind on my tongue, and it hurts a bit

 

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[Death]

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My ex contacted me yesterday after us not talking for four months... told that she's kept thinking about how I've been doing since we last talked. I wish it had stayed that way with her never contacting me ever again. I honestly still hate her but hearing from her has made me feel like shit, again. I shouldn't have read her damned e-mail at all and just deleted it as soon as I saw it. At least I could feel emotionally dead, before... if I keep hearing from her now it's going to break me down. I just hate her... please go away.

 

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[sebastian]

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Death, sorry to hear you're having a hard time with your ex. I had a very unpleasant break up with my husband of 8 years back in '07, and there was a long period where dealing with him was amazingly painful. I don't hate him (in fact I still care deeply for him), but I know how difficult it is to deal with exs when they decide they need something from you. Hang in there. It gets better, but sometimes it takes a long while before those wounds start to heal.

 

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[master jey]

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death i know exactly how you feel i was there some time ago i'm sorry for what happend

and olp
even during war houses in territory where we droped didn't have holes and what's wrong with yours? ...
gives some heat as well it's hot over here

 

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[Obedient Little Puppy]

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It's an air vent hole, which is compulsory in council properties here. Mine used to be blocked up with bricks and had a thick mesh vent cover over the top, but a housing inspector declared it unsafe, smashed the brick out, and replaced the thick vent cover with one that has huge slats in, which lets a shitload more cold air come in

 

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[Death]

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Death, sorry to hear you're having a hard time with your ex.

I was fine until now. The days passed without too many bad thoughts, with me mostly not feeling much about anything. Until now, that is. Hopefully she won't even reply to my bitter e-mail that I sent back to her. Too many memories. All just fake...

 

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[sebastian]

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I hear you, Death. When my husband left, I really struggled to make sense of our relationship, because it seemed to me that everything he had said to me had to be false and everything decision I had made felt like the wrong one, and all my happy memories seemed upside down because I was seeing them in a new light. What helped me was eventually deciding that I wasn't going to blame myself for how things turned out. At the time that I made my decisions, I was making them for good reasons, so even if they didn't work out in the end, they were still the right decisions for who I was when I made them. That helped me stop being angry at myself, and eventually I was able to realize that he hadn't been lying the whole time; he'd just reached a point where he had to change how he was making decisions. I'm still upset with him in some ways, but being able to let go of my anger toward him was so liberating. It let me get on with my life.

 

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