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Ceilidh, I hope your aunts get through their surgeries well. Perhaps a compromise would be to go either before she goes under (so you can sit with her while she's awake) or to go a little before she's scheduled to come out, so you can be there for her (or do both, depending on how much hassle that would be). There isn't a purpose to just sitting and waiting with anxiety, but being there when she's awake may mean a lot to her.
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