The Problem with Pansexual Sites & Events

[sebastian]

Well, Fetlife is structured in a way that encourages people to self-select those they will interact with, based on shared interests. From what I've seen, a lot of the gays tend to cluster in the groups specifically for gays. There is a running complaint that the Kinky and Popular feature literally NEVER features anything for gay men. But there are definitely groups that include both gay and straight kinksters. So yes, I'd say it's an issue with most pansexual groups. It simply never occurs to them that it takes more than not rejecting gays to be gay friendly. If a group wants to be truly gay-friendly, then occasionally it has to do things that directly address gays even if that means not addressing straights at the same time.

 

[Smallest]

Thanks for saying more about it. I never look at K&P and was unsure what/if there were ads or specifically targeted ones, and so on, so it was hard to tell.