Well, now you have the idea-seed. I'm sure YOU of all people can see the myriad of possibilities and meanings (both physical and psychological) behind such an act.
Also, I wear boots all the time, generally leather and generally knee-high (though of course I have many kinds of boots). I find that with the higher boots (like knee-high and thigh-high) tend to have a lot of flex/flop in the leg part, but are quite heavy (especially platform or platform-style) so you can get a got bit of swing to hit someone with the heavy end. Bonus points for eyelet (if you don't know, hooks for laces) scratches.
Beating your sub with their collar... it's like a double display of ownership... pain depends on the type of collar (my previous sub had a spiked one, like my everyday collar [for personal fashion taste, not an ownership collar]) but with smaller spikes (I had 1 inch spikes on mine, hers were about 1/3 inch).
This actually relates to the above as one of my old subs collars was a chain. It was less for pleasure, and more for punishment when I used it though. Thankfully I only had to use it on two occasions, as she said it was hurt the most, I only resorted to it twice. After that she was much more well behaved.
It was less for pleasure, and more for punishment when I used it though. Thankfully I only had to use it on two occasions, as she said it was hurt the most, I only resorted to it twice. After that she was much more well behaved.
My master bought a silicone spatula a while ago. It doesn't look all that scary, but let me tell you now...it hurts like fuck. And when you combine that with a heavy leather flogger, and some hand spanking...
Just wondering what all you have used, and what you like/don't like or would recommend.
So far my top and I have mostly played with his hand, a belt and a hairbrush that hurts like hell. He's hinted at wanting a paddle with holes, and I've suggested a riding crop. (which I actually have access to, being involved in equestrian activities)
There are a lot of great ideas here... But my absolute favorite for spankings is a good sturdy hairbrush. Most of my subs were big fans of wooden ones, but I have a great plastic one that they have grown quite fond of. Just make sure that it is a good quality one, or the handle will more than likely break. :-(