FantasticSprite
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First of all, hi everyone. This is my first post here, hopefully not my last...
Anyway, I'll dive straight into it. I have a natural desire to be a Dom, it manifests itself rather frequently in my sex life, though also rather sporadically. I was comfortable just learning about the scene slowly, at my own pace...
..until...
I ran into an amazing sub. She and I clicked on many levels, it seemed to be the beginning of an amazing relationship. She's a very intense person, but also has a -need- for submitting that other men she's been with just couldn't manage. Of course, my inexperienced, clumsy attempts in this arena were some kind of epic failure. The sex was great for both of us, but my attempt at being a Dominating figure outside of sex didn't work. I got nervous (for the first time in many years) and bungled both dates... I thought it was over right then and there.
But she really likes me, still. We're giving it another attempt because the compatibility is there, there's some kind of connection, and in theory, if I learned to be a better Dom, this would work great. Mind you that sexually, she's satisfied, it's in the other aspects of life that I'm really failing as a Dom. I need to find myself with her if this is going to work, or else as she put it, this will devolve into Friends with Benefits, which I don't really want (She doesn't either, but at least we're honest with each other)...
So of course I did the Google search, looked at the newbie resources, etc... Didn't really find the answer I was looking for. So I'm here, calling to anyone with a similar experience... I need advice, help, and it takes a great deal to swallow my pride and admit that. So yeah.. any advice?
Thanks in advance,
FS
Anyway, I'll dive straight into it. I have a natural desire to be a Dom, it manifests itself rather frequently in my sex life, though also rather sporadically. I was comfortable just learning about the scene slowly, at my own pace...
..until...
I ran into an amazing sub. She and I clicked on many levels, it seemed to be the beginning of an amazing relationship. She's a very intense person, but also has a -need- for submitting that other men she's been with just couldn't manage. Of course, my inexperienced, clumsy attempts in this arena were some kind of epic failure. The sex was great for both of us, but my attempt at being a Dominating figure outside of sex didn't work. I got nervous (for the first time in many years) and bungled both dates... I thought it was over right then and there.
But she really likes me, still. We're giving it another attempt because the compatibility is there, there's some kind of connection, and in theory, if I learned to be a better Dom, this would work great. Mind you that sexually, she's satisfied, it's in the other aspects of life that I'm really failing as a Dom. I need to find myself with her if this is going to work, or else as she put it, this will devolve into Friends with Benefits, which I don't really want (She doesn't either, but at least we're honest with each other)...
So of course I did the Google search, looked at the newbie resources, etc... Didn't really find the answer I was looking for. So I'm here, calling to anyone with a similar experience... I need advice, help, and it takes a great deal to swallow my pride and admit that. So yeah.. any advice?
Thanks in advance,
FS
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