good news even though it has invaded my lymph nodes it hasnt spread to anywhere else in my body, bad news is the extent of the surgery to deal with it. they need to remove all the lymph nodes along the right side of my neck, some tissue along my jaw, and half of my tongue. then they are going to remove muscle from my right rectoral region and use it to rebuild my tongue back to 90%. While that heals and is swollen I'll be in the hospital and they have to put in a trachiotomy so i will be able to breathe. Once the swelling goes down and the scars heal over, about 15 days) I'll begin 6 weeks of radiation and chemotherapy. So while its a rough start to a long bumpy road, at least its a long road with time left for me to walk it instead of a road I'll never see the end of....
Keep me in your thoughts and prayers.
I've Started a site to help be a fundraiser of sorts to help defer some of the costs offset that my family will have to go through while im on this road and Unable to help provide for them. I know times are tough, but if anyone would like to help out, please know its much appreciated.
Theres pics of me and my wife and children on there as well if anyone is interested in what we look like... helpmyfamilyfightcancer.webs.com
hey, Sparrow. I'm sorry that your diagnosis was so serious. I wish you well in your fight, and you have my prayers. I made a small contribution--about all I can afford. You have a wonderful looking family.
I'm in a wheelchair. Probably explains my dominance. To be perfectly honest though it seems to have caused me to be submissive in my everyday life outside of relationships and I think that's the reason, it's an escape for me and gives me confidence.
I've been feeling depressed again. I've had on and off depression since the 7th grade and lately, it's been getting worse. I lost my job,i feel like i'm not close with my mistress, I feel like i'm losing control of my life, and I'm never happy anymore.