hello i'm a sadist but im new to the whole sadist thing like where to meet a masochist /slave for if there is a BDSM community in san francisco any thing would help thanks
SF is the BDSM center of the universe. There are tons of groups there for both gays and straights. Just poke around on the internet. Or go check out Folsom St Fair or Dore Alley. Or go to Mr S. Leather and browse and ask questions.
What Sebastian said. I'm aching to go to Folsom, myself, but it's a bit of a trip.
Poking around even just on google will help you a lot. There's a big community in San Francisco. And if you have any more questions, feel free to ask here.