sebastian
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Terrible, I think it's important to realize that for some people, being tied up is genuinely distressing. For example, I like mild bondage, where there's some room to move and a sense that I might be able to get out eventually. If the bondage gets too tight, I start to become physically uncomfortable. But even more, I start to worry about how I will get out if something happens to the guy who's tying me up (like if he has a heart attack and dies--irrational, I know, but it immediately occurs to me). Once I start worrying about that, the only way I can manage the anxiety is to get extremely analytical. That suppresses my anxiety, but it also keeps me from enjoying the experience sexually. This is why I'm a dom and not a sub (that, and the fact that I kept trying to tell the guy who's tied me up what I want him to do next).
So what a sub perceives as so pleasurable that everyone would enjoy it if they just let themselves, a non-sub can experience as frightening, upsetting, or just uncomfortable. Trust me--I have a hard time understanding why every man doesn't have sex with other men.
So what a sub perceives as so pleasurable that everyone would enjoy it if they just let themselves, a non-sub can experience as frightening, upsetting, or just uncomfortable. Trust me--I have a hard time understanding why every man doesn't have sex with other men.
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