is shit eating harmful for our body?
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prnwtchr: By definition, fetishes generally only make sense to those who share them. If you have a particular kink, you understand what's hot about it, and if you don't have it, you probably can't even really understand it. Some fetishes are broad enough that people can sort of see what's hot about them even if they don't share them directly (many people understand that power is sexy, and cops have power, so you can see how they might be sexy even if you don't fetishize them). But some are sufficiently outside the bounds of normal turn-ons (like foot-worship or force-feeding) or involve things we're taught are dirty or shameful (like fat people, shit, or piss) that it becomes much harder to see their arousal value, in part because our sense of disgust tends to get in the way. If you're not into scat, odds are you'll never be able to make sense of it.
But it's important to realize that not everyone shares your particular kinks either. The scat fans might not be able to understand what turns you on. Because of this, kinksters generally operate on YKINMYBYKIOK, which stands for Your Kink Is Not My Kink, But Your Kink Is OK. The principle is that we accept each other's kinks and don't share them for having kinks we don't have. As long as someone's kink doesn't involve harming someone or violating basic rules of consent or sanity, I will accept their turn-ons even if I think they're ill-advised. If they are self-destructive, like scat is, I will tell them so and advise them to forego that particular pleasure, but I won't try to make them feel bad for what turns them on. We don't choose our kinks; they choose us. So I count myself fortunate that my kinks aren't injurious to my health (scat) or extremely dangerous (breath control, knife play), or involve violating consent (pedophilia, bestiality), or simply impossible (giant and centaur fetishists) because there are people out there with all those desires, and indulging them is a serious problem.
But it's important to realize that not everyone shares your particular kinks either. The scat fans might not be able to understand what turns you on. Because of this, kinksters generally operate on YKINMYBYKIOK, which stands for Your Kink Is Not My Kink, But Your Kink Is OK. The principle is that we accept each other's kinks and don't share them for having kinks we don't have. As long as someone's kink doesn't involve harming someone or violating basic rules of consent or sanity, I will accept their turn-ons even if I think they're ill-advised. If they are self-destructive, like scat is, I will tell them so and advise them to forego that particular pleasure, but I won't try to make them feel bad for what turns them on. We don't choose our kinks; they choose us. So I count myself fortunate that my kinks aren't injurious to my health (scat) or extremely dangerous (breath control, knife play), or involve violating consent (pedophilia, bestiality), or simply impossible (giant and centaur fetishists) because there are people out there with all those desires, and indulging them is a serious problem.
I don't know if its humiliation, I just love nasty, disgusting sex talk.
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