Hey, totally get where you're coming from. I've been exploring BDSM for a while too, and honestly, it's not always black and white. Being mostly dominant doesn't mean you can't have a submissive side — a lot of people are switches to some degree, even if they lean heavily one way.
There’s no “foolproof” test, but the best way to find out is through honest exploration. Try putting yourself in a safe, low-pressure situation where you can experience being on the other side — maybe with a trusted partner or even through guided fantasy and roleplay. Sometimes the mental aspect of submission can surprise you even if physical submission doesn’t appeal at first.
At the end of the day, your preferences are valid whether you’re 90% dom or 50/50. It’s all part of learning more about yourself.
