Protoman2050
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Protoman2050... I think you have a clear view of what you want to have and your heart is in the right place, I just think you need to get a little more experience or see a little more of a 24/7 BDSM marriage before you try to implement one. There are so many variables to consider and they aren't all black and white. Example... do you want children? How will they fit in to all this? How do you want them to view their mother? My husband is my 24/7 slave.. we have children.. my husband has given himself fully to me and therefore has no rights except the ones I give him and yes... my whim is his law! However.. our children do have rights and expectations and it is perfectly in their right to have a normal relationship with their father. Before children my slave ate on the floor at my feet.. since having children he has joined us at the table (although other rules were set in place regarding this), before children he wore chains at home after children they chains weren't feasible (again other standards were set in place).. you get my drift... My parents woudn't understand this.. my slaves parents definately wouldn't understand this... special standards and rules are put in place when they visit or when we visit them.. and he is fully expected to comply with my commands regarding any changes that need to be made. Not everyone understands or "gets" BDSM and I've found that what works best for our relationship is to simply leave the ones who don't understand out of it.. it's not between you and your pastor anyway.. it's between you and your gf.. leave it where it belongs and walk away from the toxic people in your life.
As for the scenario with the soda... I didn't read the article to get the whole jist of it, but going by what you said in your post... If I ordered my slave to leave the caffeine alone and he disobeyed.. he'd indeed be punished, because it's not a matter of whether he disobeyed a small command.. it's just that he disobeyed period! Would it be a daily punishment... no.. something more along the lines of him kneeling before me having to drink so much soda in one sitting that to even look at a soda makes him gag would get the point across much more than a daily whipping. And again he'd understand that my word is law and to deviate from that has consequences.
And they'd definately kill him off right away... he has a strong will, thinks for himself, and thinks outside the box... invading armies want slaves
I agree. My issue actually wasn't the thing 'bout soda, but the fact that no-where in the article was there ever a statement an order was given. So it seemed arbitrary. Now, I completely understand your explanation. Your method reminds me of a story in a book of Norse myths where this guy was invited to the king's table. He continued to eat his porridge after the king was done, so the king commanded him to eat porridge until he burst. After several bowls, he exclaimed "If you wish to kill me, please do so but not with porridge!".
Thank you guys so much! Btw, my new pastors aren't toxic people, they're great. The old ones, however, were like uranium.
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