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You've got two separate issues here really. 1) How you can find a woman to be submissive to and 2) how you can find a woman who will indulge your desire to cross dress. The second issue is probably somewhat easier than the first. Most women who are willing to dominate a man are probably willing to at least consider requiring him to cross dress. Some dommes might really like to make their sub cross dress, while others might simply agree to offer it as a reward for good behavior. So as you're looking for a domme, make sure that you tell her about your interest in cross dressing and make sure she's willing to consider it.
Finding a domme is probably going to be a little bit trickier. Sligo isn't, so far as I know, a major population center, so while there might be some kinky (or kink-friendly) women in your area, they are likely to be less common than in the major cities. So my recommendation would be to focus some of your search in Dublin. Urban areas are just generally more kink-friendly, so you have better odds of finding a kinky woman there than in the more rural parts of Ireland.
Have you tried posting on Collarme? It's an international site (I've chatted with Irish guys on it).
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