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Sparrow69 · May 26, 2009

very good point master c, however, bare in mind there is a polite way and a disrespectful way to decline a request. The polite way is, "I need to okay that with my master first (or some variation thereof." That simple show of politeness will garnish more respect for both the sub and the dom who controls her, whereas almost anything else will only breed insolence and non-tolerance with the level of disrespect it garnishes.

Master C · May 26, 2009

While that is true, I know there are many couples that have not discussed that, and it will cause problems. And in the example I was talking about, the sub felt as if her master didn't care for her feelings.

Edit: She said to her master she didn't feel like she should have to listen since they weren't her master, and since they were all in the same room, it made her look small.

Sparrow69 · May 26, 2009

all she had to say was "I have to okay that with my master first." and any situation is averted.

Master C · May 27, 2009

Sparrow69 said:
all she had to say was "I have to okay that with my master first." and any situation is averted.

but if she had said that, Sparrow, in front of the guests and her master, wouldn't that have been just cause for a severe punishment? The way I think you are understanding what I said was if her master was in a different room.

Sparrow69 · May 27, 2009

mo, i understand he was in the same room. no, showing respect does not warrant a punishment. If a sub is unsure of a course of action, she should always defer to what her master says. Now if her MASTER tells her something, and she questions it, that does warrant punishment. If her master tells her to do something, it should be done, no questions asked and without hesitation.

Nyx · May 29, 2009

If her master tells her to do something, it should be done, no questions asked and without hesitation.

This is such a guilt inducing statement, but true and well said, Sparrow.

Nyx · May 29, 2009

AND I agree with the statement about honesty and trust. Because my boyfriend is also my master we have to be open and honest with one another. It's not always easy, but it's always important.

Prissy · May 29, 2009

I agree and Master found something out last night, although I am not sur eif it is good or bad, or what it means.

Sparrow69 · May 29, 2009

Prissy said:
I agree and Master found something out last night, although I am not sure if it is good or bad, or what it means.

Care to share or give an example? How does Master C finding out this information impact your life?

Prissy · May 30, 2009

Sparrow69 said:
Care to share or give an example? How does Master C finding out this information impact your life?

Well apparently part of our problem was during our sessions, I would usually begin to speak in french, and at that point he would be disgusted and wealk off.

Master found ot, that where I was was in subspace. Although I still don't know what subspace is. He seemed to understand

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