best way to find a sub

[themaster]

i have always wanted to get in to bdsm, but have never been able to find a female sub, to share my dreams with, anyone any know the best place to look?

 

[ReallyGreen]

Post a Craigslist ad.

However I'd suggest serving as a sub for a while before moving onto getting your own sub. But thats just my opinion I guess.

 

[themaster]

i could never be a sub, i am too much of a control freak, well thats not ture really, but i think i have enough people in the real world telling me what to do, i just want a small space of my own to control and enjoy, thats what i am looking for really, as long as i look after the sub too,(she would be more important than me really) that should be ok, shouldnt it

 

[ReallyGreen]

Well Craigslist works for me.

 

[tiemeuphard]

I have been looking for a master for a long time

 

[Prissy]

The Master, if you are not willing to first be a sub, I sugest you talk to your sub a lot, and find out if you are doing things wel for them, and not overdoing it.

 

[Ms.sub13]

I started dating a guy first before I told him I was a sub. Try something like that but don't scare her away. Just see if it is something she would be interested in trying.

 

[serodio]

I started dating a guy first before I told him I was a sub. Try something like that but don't scare her away. Just see if it is something she would be interested in trying.

Much what sub13 says: If you want a sub, you're better off looking for a partner that is GGG to try whatever you want to get into. If you're just getting into BDSM, chances are you're not going to find a lot of subs willing to serve a novice.

 

[Master of puppies]

I have been looking for a master for a long time

Get your coat Themaster, you've pulled.
[This is the part where you find out she lives 2000 miles away].

 

[Prissy]

You have got that right Master of Puppies