a little help from my friends ...

[sebastian]

I agree. I'm always surprised by how many people get into it. It's probably the singlemost dangerous BDSM practice there is, but people don't seem to realize that

 

[Luna]

I certainly appreciate the dangers of breath control.
My lovers don't string me up by the neck or the to strangle me.
There is for me very few things I can think of that are more arousing than the feel of his strong hands on my neck. Or if he does find a scarf, a tie, a belt- those little tugs that say I am in control here- yeah, wow.
I read up on Jay Wiseman, very informative.

 

[Smallest]

So, do you like just the restraint, or the breath control? I can agree with you on the restraint, and seconds of more than that, usually put on by my own struggling, but not real breath control.

 

[Knots]

So, do you like just the restraint, or the breath control? I can agree with you on the restraint, and seconds of more than that, usually put on by my own struggling, but not real breath control.

That's basically what I'm prepared to do with my girl, since this seems to be a hot topic now.

 

[Luna]

I'm not looking for suffocation/strangulation. I'm not looking for the so-called euphoric high from oxygen deprivation. That is foolish.
What I enjoy is the sensation of very strong hands on my neck, around my throat.
The belt I like and much like a scarf, once he lets go it will go slack. All right, the tie is dangerous, I'll give you that one, but he so loves me in my business attire!

There was one incident with my younger lover when he grabbed my throat, which is not something he would normally do, had never done before, it was a lovely orgasm as I recall. However, later in the day I did notice some minor petechial hemorrhaging. We had a little talk ...