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Sebastian,
I agree with what's being said above, but if I may, I'll add a bit to it.
Can you order him to go out and find some friends? Maybe order him to find a few "toys" of his own. I've had a very bad past and I, too had and still have issues with confidence. When you have a good Master it makes you capable of more than you thought you were ever possible. For instance, I have little confidence in myself and my abilities to do things on my own, but if I were ordered to do something I feel bound by that. An obligation. A commitment. I HAVE to do it. I have no choice but to do it.
My point being, he's afraid of the only person making him capable of doing great things leaving him. It's understandable, but it's also not your responsibility- At least not completely. What he has to realize is that he's capable of doing all of it, of his own accord.
As a human, you feel obligated to help him out obviously, and to not let him cause harm to himself or others, but it's not fair of him to even say that suicide is an option.
Here's what I'd do:
The second he'd mention suicide, I'd tell him that that is NOT an option, and that he is to, under no circumstances harm himself. If you're firm on this, and very direct it can be a powerful, powerful thing.
Secondly, if you're aware of places he likes to go, or things he likes to do, I'd order him to go out and do these things more often. Meet more people. Have fun. Etc. Order him to make friends, essentially. If he sees that he's capable of making friends on his own, it will help build his confidence in himself. Even though you ordered him to make friends, he'll have to do the work. Also, he'll have more support to help him through the tough times and make him less dependent on yourself.
Lastly, I'd definitely do as stated above and see if you can find another dom, or maybe just a play-mate for him. Someone to look after him, and again help him be less dependent on you. Though, I think this should only be temporary and I believe it's very important he works on himself before joining another relationship of this type. I've had to learn that the hard way. You don't think clearly when you're depressed and things can get ugly fast.
I hope this helps. Please let me know how things go. Best of luck.
-M
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