Open to new ideas

[Nuka]

I like the ideas, we have talked about trying to bite for blood but haven't yet, and I wouldn't want to trying the choking stuff.

Lots of great ideas. Just be aware that choking/asphyxiation in any form carries really serious risks. They are much more dangerous than most people realize. So read up on them before you explore them

We don't do "real" Asphyxia/Choking more hand around the throat hold against the wall type thing. It's the shock and surprise factor more than actually stopping breathing.

Biting for blood takees you over the edge physically and mentally in my view. Not to orgasm (though it has happened before with myself and ashlie) but it connects in a way not many other things. to a certain different level, it's fine sharing cum (m and f) but blood is that extra layer. You have to almost grin and bear the pain if you want the result, but you soon fall in love with it.

 

[sebastian]

One thing a lot of guys like is for me to stand behind him and wrap one arm around his neck, grabbing the opposite shoulder. At the same time, I put my other hand over his mouth, either more or less tightly. This position creates some of the illusion of choking without seriously compromising his ability to breathe. It also gives me a lot of control over his upper body. I can pull his head to the side to lick, kiss, or bite his neck, shoulder or ear, and it allows me to push him around. I can whisper in his ear, which can be extremely menacing. It's also very impersonal, because he can't actually see me (unless we're in front of a mirror). It really produces a strong sense of power imbalance. For variety, I can take the hand off his mouth and work his tits, stroke his belly, or stroke or slap his cock. I can grind on his ass. I can press his body against a wall and pin him between the wall and my body. I've never tried to fuck a guy this way, but it can be done with a little effort. For even more control, I tie his hands behind his back, which means he can fondle my cock.