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You should PM this to the admin (dorei). They don't always read the forum, and as a moderator I actually can't make any of those changes. They probably would be especially glad to be warned about the CP. It would probably be more useful to hear it from a member than me.

What?

Online relationships are still relationships, and what you're describing (flirting, photo swapping, etc) doesn't sound like just friendship (I'm assuming he doesn't do that with his non SM friends?). That he has talked to you about it makes it a bit less red-flag-y, but you still sound...

MyFreeCams and Chaturbate, because they're live and because the models on them still can receive payment for their work. The huge variety is also a plus (ignoring that the former is women only, at least).

Before I begin, honestly, parts of this sound eerily similar to 50 Shades of Abuse's deconstruction of abuse, but unfortunately I can't link it. However, I suggest you read as many links on the side bar of it as you can click (especially ones about BDSM relationships in general, not just 50...

Seeing as my thread has been stickied (thank you, whoever!), I might as well add more. Out of order, mostly from the past month. Some are more kinky, some are more fetishy, some are more silly. http://40.media.tumblr.com/6ef0ff6be034fbeda1b95e260e1f7763/tumblr_njr1qzyzxq1r79tezo1_1280.png...

It sounds like it was just nerves and infatuation, but I wasn't there.

Thanks for saying more about it. I never look at K&P and was unsure what/if there were ads or specifically targeted ones, and so on, so it was hard to tell.

This is perhaps true. Out of curiousity (especially directed at Sebby), does Fet have any issues with this (the titular topic)?

Even though they're showing up in posts (again), I think the ads have gotten a bit less obnoxious? I can't really tell since I missed the early ones. I'm just seeing one in a single post every page, and one at the very bottom of the page. I don't really know what's going on anymore, last time I...

The big thing is that she can overheat and of course that if you bind her too tightly you could cut off circulation. Don't use the tape to squeeze anything, just apply it. If you have her held in position, especially something like hogtie or kneeling, you also need to make sure she doesn't lose...

Wow hi, I really wanted that ad in my post, thanks!

So, um, while I obviously look like a rat fleeing a sinking ship right now- if someone were to, say, make another free forum in a similar format to this, without ridiculous ads, and also still a forum rather than Fetlife, would there be interest? Particularly if the porn sharing functions were...

306, and mod note- please don't post twice (or more) in a row in this thread without someone else posting.

I agree, especially since gay leather culture had/is such a strong influence on BDSM- it belongs here more than submissive women in the ads (although I mean, preferably there'd be no ads). I'm especially sorry to hear you feel pushed out by it though, Sebby. I'm starting to think the only option...