The Random Chat/Offtopic Thread

Smallest · Dec 9, 2013

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Obedient Little Puppy said:
Every forum needs one of these, a thread where people can just go in and talk about whatever they like, so I decided I would make one here

Basically, just talk about whatever you like...this way, we could all start to get to know each other a bit better in a non-BDSM sense Not fishing for info that could reveal anyone's true identity, or anything like that, but just general stuff, like, describing the day you've had, any plans you've got for the week ahead, ask each other questions, that sort of thing A free flowing thread with no specific topic, therefore making it impossible to wander away from the 'main point' as there isn't one

I'll begin...I was just looking for my little fibre optic Xmas tree in my store cupboard, but although I found the tree, I couldn't find either the pot it goes into, or the wire But on the plus side, the cupboard is now a bit tidier, and I have also finally found my main bunch of keys, having not seen them in about 2 months So now I am all dusty and smelly, and enjoying a well deserved cup of tea

I can't wait to see how this thread will turn out...

Smallest · Dec 9, 2013

And since I'm not in a thinky mood, today's random suggested topic is your greatest fear. Can be kink or non-kink related.

sebastian · Dec 10, 2013

Hmmm. One of my greatest fears is truly disappointing my slave. He puts such enormous trust in me, I would be devastated if I really screwed something up

Smallest · Dec 10, 2013

sebastian said:
Hmmm. One of my greatest fears is truly disappointing my slave. He puts such enormous trust in me, I would be devastated if I really screwed something up

I understand, although you're pretty caring so I doubt it will happen.

Mine is that I'll tell Tall a kink that comes to me and it will disgust him. It won't happen, he's accepted crazy stuff, even if he wouldn't do it, but I always am nervous about it.

sebastian · Dec 10, 2013

Well, that's in the same vein as mine, isn't it? Destruction of trust, but from a different direction. I wish my slave would tell me about new kinks, but he mostly insists that he just wants to do whatever I want to do, with a few reservations.

Smallest · Dec 10, 2013

I suppose you're right, we're both worried we'll disappoint somehow. But mine's more about desires and yours is more about messing up, I think (I'm reading into what you said, I could be totally wrong). But I think kink-related ones are mostly going to be in that vein, fear of disappointing, fear of trusting and getting hurt (physically or emotionally). It's the specifics that make it different.

Also, I'm pleased to say that so far there has been no spam in this new thread.

Tumbl3 · Dec 10, 2013

Yay new thread!

Hmm, I guess my biggest fear is just not doing anything with my life. Waking up and realizing it's been 20 years and I never did the things I want to do, that it might be too late.

Smallest · Dec 10, 2013

Aww. If you don't mind me asking, how old are you tumble?

sebastian · Dec 10, 2013

Smallest: I wasn't trying to suggest there wasn't anything different between our fears, just that there is an interesting connection there. Trust is such a huge issue in BDSM that I suspect it tends to influence a lot of how we think about our relationships.

Smallest · Dec 11, 2013

I know Sebby, I was just trying to dissect it a bit more

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