whiteflight
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I checked out the newbie thread but found nothing regarding this question.
Ummm...so, at the risk of having others lash out at me for this, I wanted to know if there was anyone else who has been scared away by all the porn pics displayed so brazenly on all of the BDSM sites? I mean...I really want to try the BDSM lifestyle (since I was a young teen, I've had fantasies of the BDSM nature, and I'd never even heard of BDSM), but because my personality is a bit conservative, I am totally freaked out over walking into what I assume is safe place for people with my interests and find nude photos of men and women splashed all across the page. I don't mean to sound like a prude, but it makes me feel like that is all the BDSM community is about, and it causes me to second-guess my own interests.
I have the interests of a submissive and I have wanted a dom who keeps all of that sexual stuff inside the relationship and in the privacy of the home, who might be a little wary of all the...stuff...I see on these sites.
But...I dunno if that's too much to ask...or if I'm horrible for even suggesting that. It's just something that's been bothering me. I didn't know who else to ask. Sorry...
Ummm...so, at the risk of having others lash out at me for this, I wanted to know if there was anyone else who has been scared away by all the porn pics displayed so brazenly on all of the BDSM sites? I mean...I really want to try the BDSM lifestyle (since I was a young teen, I've had fantasies of the BDSM nature, and I'd never even heard of BDSM), but because my personality is a bit conservative, I am totally freaked out over walking into what I assume is safe place for people with my interests and find nude photos of men and women splashed all across the page. I don't mean to sound like a prude, but it makes me feel like that is all the BDSM community is about, and it causes me to second-guess my own interests.
I have the interests of a submissive and I have wanted a dom who keeps all of that sexual stuff inside the relationship and in the privacy of the home, who might be a little wary of all the...stuff...I see on these sites.
But...I dunno if that's too much to ask...or if I'm horrible for even suggesting that. It's just something that's been bothering me. I didn't know who else to ask. Sorry...
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