Recent content by Nuka

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    Long term/stable members who've read 50 shades: want to do some homework?

    I wrote one for Amazon. You can find that on Fet. As a piece of fantasy Twilight fanfic it's okay. But now we have "armchair" experts in BDSM who also think they understand the dynamic and psychology behind it. It's a shame but it happens. I saw someone on Fet earlier. Some 40 year old guy...
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    Fetlife....any good experiences with that?

    I'm on there and have had some privacy issues from outside parties. But all in all I've had good experiences. If you use it as a networking site you should be fine. As with everything on the internet, don't take it at face value and be careful what you post (pics, writing, vids, etc).
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    Long term/stable members who've read 50 shades: want to do some homework?

    Wrong First scene involving cable ties. NO NO NO NO NO. Sorry but for a first time? Extremely unsafe and not easy to get out of in safeword. Sadism can be "cured". The scene where she safeword's out of being denied orgasm and runs off, and he does nothing for aftercare. The part of "I want...
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    Good site to broadcast yourself?

    If you're that desperate to exhibit there's always Chat Roulette and Omegle too :P
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    Online punishments?

    Make them keep a diary and set them tasks to do throughout the day, each day and they must provide evidence (pictures, video, etc) of them doing the tasks. Punishments can then be put in place for not doing something. I.e. not allowed to msturbate, have to go an evening without talking to...
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    Confused sub

    Talk to him and ask him how he's feeling about it. Communication is key. May I ask why you both don't want a relationship?
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    Maybe it's just me

    Haha could do just that...
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    A day to Remeber( Start of my training into this world)

    In regards to climaxing problems, you might have just felt pressured to do so, or just had to much going on to make it viable at the time. If you get what I mean? The looseness I guess is normal? Best person to ask for that one would be Seb...
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    Maybe it's just me

    Haha I don't think we can just start asking random questions xD Maybe things along the lines of "what is humanity" and "are we alone"? :P
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    Maybe it's just me

    I miss the discussions tbh, but I suppose it's just not having the influx of new users
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    Maybe it's just me

    I'm always on here, I check it everyday. But there's just nothing to comment on sometimes :P
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    Maybe it's just me

    But has anyone noticed how this site seems to go through phases of being used and not? It seems to me that every few months everything slows down on here lol. Just rambling, wondering if anyone's noticed?
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    Thinking about buying a flogger/cat9tails

    I got the one from Ann Summers. Cheap and very good quality considering. Nice snap to it and haven't had any complaints...
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    insatiable

    Sounds like an interesting way of seeing into someone else's private time. I guess you could just post to here and keep it updated in this thread, like a diary. I'm sure someone will want to read it.
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    Let's Define Pornography!

    So vampirism isn't part of BDSM erotica? It is a fetish :P But nah it does have actual vamps in it, but not the Dracula or Twi-shyte ones. It is a fantasy gothic novel but aside form that, it is... real.
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